Grief & Loss
Grief quotes from the writers who lived it
Real, verified lines about losing someone. Nothing made up.
Search for grief quotes and you’ll find thousands of lines, many credited to people who never said them. These are different. They come from poets and letter writers who lost parents, children, friends and lovers, and wrote down what it was actually like.
“The bustle in a house The morning after death Is solemnest of industries Enacted upon earth”
Emily Dickinson, on the morning after.
What grief quotes are for
A good line doesn’t fix anything. It tells you someone else has stood exactly here. People reach for them:
- In the first days, when nothing anyone says quite lands.
- For a sympathy card, when your own words feel too small.
- For a eulogy or a memorial, to say what you can’t yet.
- On the anniversary, when everyone else has moved on.
- For yourself, at 3am.
Writers who wrote about grief
- Alfred, Lord Tennyson, who spent seventeen years writing In Memoriam for his friend
- Emily Dickinson, on the house after a death
- Madame de Sévigné, in letters to her daughter
- Christina Rossetti, on sorrow and faith
- Walt Whitman, mourning with every spring
- William Wordsworth, on thoughts too deep for tears
- Katherine Philips, for her infant son
- Kahlil Gibran, on sorrow and delight
Their lines arrive one a day in Saudade’s Grief & Loss thread.
Saudade gives you one line of poetry or literature a day, chosen by a person, from writers who felt it first. Then a private page to write what it brings up. Nobody reads it but you, and over the weeks your pages become a book of your own.
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